Would u...
Monday, December 08, 2008 2:09 AM
Question:
Would u allow ur bf to go out with a girl he just got to know?
Ans: i wouldnt mind.
remark: that means u've not fallen in love yet.
reply: i have and i know how it feels.
Reason being:
I believe in keeping my options open if ive not found the one close to the right one.
it might sound as if im toying around but! they always encourage u to take risks.
Ive never find a new person a threat. if the guy likes the girl even tho he may say i love u and all but he still has the urge of contacting that particular new girl for wadever reasons.
why bother fighting over it. i'd rather give it up. coz from there u'd know the guy's attitude, so why bother?
UNLESS he's close to THE one.
i would obviously mind cause i wld want him for myself.
But of course!
if he STILL insists on meeting new girls, then i MIGHT consider...
but then again..
AS LONG AS HE TELLS U who he's out with and where he met the girl.
and acknowledge me as his gf to the girl.. i dun mind. =)
He said: i just find it difficult to understand the way u think
Reply: Boys usually wont. Its normal. i dont expect you to understand it anyway.
:)
Sometimes u just have this urge of WANTING to have a partner.
But u realise its not a NEED.
so u get all confused.
And lazy to even bother about the whole concept of having a relationship.
And when u found someone close to your so called requirements.
u just fear of the whole SHITTY relationship routine.
And u just dont wanna get hurt or hurt anyone.
You'll end up regretting.
and go,
"i just lost someone who's actually precious"
but u refuse to let the other party know due to wadever reasons.
But whatever it is.
i know that im just tired of thinking about it.
what ever happens happens.
as long as im loving my life! thats all that matters now!
=)
So i dun wish to answer anymore of such questions anymore! hehs!