Esteem issues.
Friday, December 18, 2009 11:21 AM
hmmm...And so I found out that Girls Do get intimidated by the Guy's Ex-es.
hmmm... they said it was due to insecurity reasons.
hmmm... its a common thing?
hmmm... Then i must be the odd one out.
Not saying that i Totally DONT mind,
I would mind if the girl comes back into him life asking for him back.
But even so, I guess, if she really NEEDED him, then i might as well hand him over.
See im not mean okay. haha..
Like i said in my older posts (cant remember which)
"If he really loves/like you he wont return or entertain whoever that came into his life again"
And yesterday discussed with the girls about self esteem issues.
Issues about them feeling inferior to the guy's taste of girls.
Hmms... So they said that they actually feel inferior that the girls (the guy's pasts) are hotter/prettier/sweeter then them.
I seriously think its not about how perfect that girl may look physically. Everyone has their inprefectness and their speciality. They may be a bimbo for all you know.
anw, that's besides the point.tHE POINT IS!
For me!
I'll take it as a compliment if the guy used to have Hot Ex Girlfriends Before. Eventhough i might be seen as the ugliest amongst them. At least Im in one of his choices, so im like " one of them also" haha.. erm get wad i mean?
Its unhealthy to have self esteem issues. I myself have self esteem issues ok.
With ALOT of issues. haha trust me.
But if you dont think about it too much then it wont bother u so much.
If the guy thinks your ugly and therefore you do not fit his category and leave him
These boys are either looking for girls to be their F buddy or as posters.
" ONE SHOULD LIKE / LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE AND NOT YOUR PHYSICAL OUTLOOK...! "