early morning in the office,
we were randomly talking to each other until she asked me the question on,
"do you think u'd ever get married to ur bf?"
and my ans was a straight NO!

No offence my dear boy.
Coz ive yet to achieve my dreams so im not even trying to even think close to the word marriage.
Coz honestly (let me be frank) here are the reasons,

1. I still wanna continue my studies
2. I wanna leave this country for a better life but of course not forever kind of thing (but it would be good if it were to be forever hehs)
3. Its nice to see people getting married and all but i dun think i even wanna get married anytime soon until im satisfied with myself.

People might say, "by the time ure satisfied with urself u'd be too old"
But its ok. Mom talked to me about it also she was talking about future plannings.
NOt refering to whoever of course.
she was like ok when ure wanna get married this is wad u are surpose to do...*blablabla*
and i got sick of it.
then she went, (the conversation was in malay so let me have the honour of translating it. =)
mom: its not as if im asking u to get married in 2 years time, wait, how old do u wanna get married?
me: well 28 perhaps.
mom: no get married at 27
me: what difference does it make?
mom: no diference so get married at 27 if not later u'll be too old how?
me: too old nvm lorh. never get married also never mind. as long as i can survive on my own its ok.
mom: eee.. what a waste everyone wants to get married
me: of course everyone wants to get married but you're talking to a 21 yr old (soon to be =p) who's not even thinking of getting married. -.-"

Then dad came in. and the conversation was over! thank god!haha
well mom refuse to talk to me about this infront of dad coz she knows dad will go,
"Dont be nonsesnse! she's still studying"
hehs.

Well im proud that some of the ppl i know are already planning to get married.
For instance, im waiting for another 2 years or perhaps if im lucky enough next year im going to attend someone's weding. =p
than another 3 years from now, someone's planning to prepare for a wedding which sound exciting.

But personally not my time yet! haha
2 years from now, i'm still studying.
3years from now, most probably i've just graduated and continuing my higher cert.
so which means after 3 years im still not done with school i'll be like wad? 24?
den im going to get a proper stable job which takes at least 4 years which makes me 28
den The idea of me not wanting to stay in sg will take at least 2 years to see if im suitable to stay there. so...
Total calculated age : 30
SO!!!
only by 30 then i can peacefully think of marriage. hehs. nOT Too bad hor. =)


Bleargh!
ok back to work!